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Start the first step toward your vibrant new lifestyle. A bright beginning filled with optimism, growth, and positive change.

“We are all of us stars, and we deserve to twinkle.”
— Marilyn Monroe

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Onboarding Overview

Program enrollment steps: 1) Expression of Interest form. 2) An email or two. 3) A kink questionnaire. 4) Finish onboarding steps. 5) Getting to know each other with an IRL meal/outing. 6) Payment. 7) Therapeutic Program.

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No data mining you

No Big Tech

I take extreme measures to keep your information safe. No tracking pixels, Google or other big tech, AI training, and no selling/giving your information to 3rd parties.

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Private Communications

How we Communicate

We use privacy-first communications. Tuta or Proton for email. Signal, Session, Briar or an XMPP based platform for messaging. I have a Jitsi Meet setup on a VPS for video chat.

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Step one

Expression of Interest

I keep my roster deliberately small to ensure the right chemistry and a genuinely restorative experience. Here’s an overview of the application steps; if we’re not the right fit at any point, I’ll send a brief, friendly note.

  1. Fill out this Expression of Interest section.
  2. Some quickie messages to say hello and answer any questions.
  3. A Kink/BDSM questionnaire based on your responses.
  4. Finish onboarding steps such as a video chat. I have to ask for ID for legal reasons — feel free to redact or blur the ID number.
  5. The last interview is a relaxed in-person date (you take me out for lunch, dinner, or cocktails) where we plan your first program and make sure everything feels right.
  6. Many forms of payment are available.
  7. Start your transformational therapeutic experience.

    About you
    How do you want to communicate?
    Identity
    Gender in day to day life
    Gender you want to train or change into
    Sexual preference
    Interests
    Role-play (Cosplay)
    Voyeur (enjoy watching)
    Exhibitionist (enjoy showing)
    Sissy or Forced Fem
    Power Exchange
    BD: Bondage & Discipline (physical restraints, rope bunny, rigger, training, punishment, etc.)
    DS: Dominance & Submission (obedience, power exchange, service, humility, etc.)
    SM: Sadism & Masochism (pain, pain slut, degradation, fear, etc.)
    Experience
    Your BDSM archetype
    Your primary role
    How long in the scene
    Your age
    Partner’s age
    In your own words
    Before you send